Flip Your Script
Four weeks to change the conversation within and change what becomes possible
Change negative thought patterns and choose a more truthful, supportive response.
Change Negative Thought Patterns | Flip Your Script
What are you telling yourself before life even answers?
You consider trying something new, and the thought appears:
What if I fail?
Someone doesn’t return your call:
They must be upset with me.
You make one mistake:
I always get things wrong.
You think about saying no:
If they’re disappointed, I must be selfish.
The thought arrives quickly and speaks with such confidence that you may never stop to ask whether it is true.
So you hesitate. You replay conversations. You prepare for problems that haven’t happened. You dismiss what went well and give the one criticism permanent lodging in your mind.
Little by little, the old script begins making choices for you.
The event and the story aren’t always the same
Something happens. Then your mind explains what it means.
The event: A friend hasn’t returned your telephone call.
The story: “She is upset with me.”
That story may be correct. It may also be one possibility among several. Until you have more information, it is an interpretation, not a fact.
The same thing happens when a setback becomes proof that you’re incapable or another person’s disappointment becomes proof that you’ve done something wrong. Your thoughts influence what you do next, but they don’t automatically deserve your trust.
What might change if you could hear the old script before following it?
A different response becomes possible
Imagine catching a discouraging thought before it takes over the day.
Instead of arguing with it or replacing it with a cheerful statement you don’t believe, you pause. You separate what happened from what you assumed. You keep what is true, question what has been exaggerated or left out, and decide what the moment genuinely needs.
A mistake can remain a mistake without becoming your identity. A difficult emotion can carry information without taking over the steering wheel.
You may still feel uncertain. The outcome may still be unknown. But you are no longer limited to the first story your mind offers.
Introducing Flip Your Script
Flip Your Script is a practical four-week course that helps you recognize the thoughts shaping your feelings, choices, relationships, and direction.
You’ll learn to distinguish facts from assumptions, recognize the patterns behind your inner conversation, and create responses that help you move forward.
Your 4-step journey to come back to yourself
At the center of the course is one memorable practice:
Notice | Question | Rewrite | Choose
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Step 1: NOTICE
Notice: What am I telling myself? -
Step 2: QUESTION
What is true, and what might I be assuming? -
Step 3: REWRITE
What is a more truthful and supportive response? -
Step 4: CHOOSE
What will I do from this new perspective?
This isn’t about stopping every negative thought. That could become a full-time occupation, and I suspect you already have enough to do.
It is about recognizing when an old script is speaking and deciding whether it reflects the truth, what matters to you, and the choice you want to make now.
Flip Your Script
A 4-week transformational life coaching journey with Stella Frances
Joining the interest list doesn’t obligate you to enroll, and no payment is required.
Why I created this course
I have never believed that positivity means ignoring what hurts or pasting a smile over something difficult.
To me, authentic positivity means meeting life honestly while remaining open to possibility, support, and meaningful action.
My dear friend Tommy was born in Ireland and later made New York his home. Wonderfully positive yet grounded in reality, he could see possibility where others might see only a problem. No matter what was happening in my life, he would remind me, “Lass, the world is your oyster.”
His words didn’t make the difficulty disappear. They reminded me that the difficulty was never the whole story.
A pearl begins with an irritant. The oyster doesn’t pretend it isn’t there. It responds, layer by layer, and something new begins to form.
That is the heart of Flip Your Script. You don’t deny what hurts. You listen for what it may be telling you and decide whether the old story still belongs in your life now.
Is Flip Your Script for you?
Flip Your Script is for you if:
- You replay mistakes or conversations long after they end.
- You expect something to go wrong, even when things are going well.
- You assume you know what other people are thinking.
- You focus on one criticism while overlooking everything you did well.
- You hold back because failure, rejection, or someone’s disappointment feels too risky.
- You’re tired of speaking to yourself in ways you would never speak to someone you love.
- You want a practical way to change negative self-talk without pretending life is perfect.
You don’t have to arrive feeling positive. Bring curiosity, honesty, and one thought you’re ready to examine.
Flip Your Script is not for you if:
- You’re looking for someone else to tell you exactly what to think.
- You want an instant solution without reflection, practice, or participation.
- You’re not currently willing to question familiar assumptions or experiment with a different response.
A closer look at how Flip Your Script helps you change negative thought patterns
Week one: Understand the conversation within
You’ll begin by noticing the repeated messages running through your mind and how they influence what you feel, expect, and choose. Rather than trying to change them immediately, you’ll practice hearing the conversation within with curiosity and honesty.
You’ll choose one recurring inner script to examine throughout the course and begin recognizing when it speaks before you automatically follow it.
Week two: Question and rewrite the old script
You’ll learn to recognize common thinking shortcuts such as all-or-nothing thinking, filtering, jumping to conclusions, personalization, and the tyranny of “should.”
Then you’ll use Notice. Question. Rewrite. Choose. to separate events from interpretations, create a response you can trust, and respond more consciously to personal triggers.
Week three: Change what supports the conversation
Your inner conversation doesn’t develop in isolation. Your physical surroundings, relationships, boundaries, and the information you consume can reinforce an old script or support a new one.
You’ll notice what strengthens or drains you and choose one realistic change. No complete home renovation, relationship overhaul, and disappearance from the internet by Friday required.
Week four: Carry the new response into daily life
You’ll create one point of return for your morning, midday, or evening, with full, short, and minimum versions for different kinds of days.
You’ll leave with a continuation plan for the moment the old script returns, because returning is part of the practice.
Together, the four weeks express the Live Happily Method™: awareness of the script, alignment with truth and values, action through conscious choices, and expansion as the new response becomes part of everyday life.
Change you can expect
Change often appears in small moments before it becomes visible in larger ones. You will begin to:
- Catch an old thought before it decides the rest of your day.
- Separate what happened from the story you added to it.
- Speak to yourself with greater fairness.
- Respond more thoughtfully when something triggers you.
- Set a boundary without treating another person’s disappointment as proof that you’re wrong.
- Recover from mistakes without turning them into judgments about your worth.
- Take a meaningful step even when the outcome isn’t guaranteed.
The old conversation may return. Let it knock. You don’t have to hand it the keys.
What you’ll receive
Flip Your Script combines practical lessons, guided reflection, live coaching, and personal support so you can apply what you learn to the thoughts and situations arising in your own life.
Four live group coaching calls
Four weekly 60-minute telephone group classes with Stella Frances.
Guides and resources
Four course lessons, corresponding workbooks, and online access to all course materials.
Weekly action and accountability
Guided exercises and simple practices for applying what you learn.
A small and personal group
A small group limited to 10 participants. The live classes give you space to ask questions and apply the ideas to real situations with guidance and support.
One private coaching session with Stella
You’ll have dedicated time with Stella to explore what matters most to you and receive guidance specific to your life, goals, or challenges.
A private online community
Connect with the people taking this journey alongside you. Share discoveries, celebrate progress, ask questions, and receive encouragement between our live calls.
Personal guidance throughout the journey: I’ll be right there to support you every step of the way with guidance, accountability, honest feedback, and encouragement as you practice applying the course to your own life.
“Stella Frances is the real deal. Her Happiness classes are truly life-changing! She offers real-life tools that helped me understand who I truly am, a gift that has changed my life. I highly recommend her courses and programs.”
Stephanie S.
Jewelry Designer
I’ve walked this path too
Hi, I’m Stella Frances
Growing up in Athens, Greece, I was drawn to life’s deeper questions and ancient Greek teachings about self-knowledge and living well.
I built a successful career in information technology, cared for the people I loved, and became someone others could depend on. I knew how to work hard, solve problems, and keep going.
From the outside, I had created a successful life. But inside, I was exhausted, and I could no longer find myself in the life I had worked so hard to build.
Eventually, burnout changed the direction of my life. I began searching for practical ways to work with my thoughts, become more present, and create more meaningful relationships.
That search led me to mindfulness, life coaching, positive psychology, and a deeper study of Greek philosophy.
My corporate career also gave me a practical understanding of responsibility, leadership, professional pressure, and what it feels like to build a successful life while quietly wondering whether it is the life you truly want.
That journey taught me how powerfully the conversation within can shape what we believe, what we choose, and what we imagine is possible.
Today, I help people move through burnout, self-doubt, difficult decisions, changing relationships, career transitions, and the search for greater clarity and meaning.
I’m the author of The Quiet Path, a certified life coach, mindfulness instructor, and a Certified Canfield Success Principles Trainer.
For more than 10 years, my work has been thoughtful, warm, and deeply human, filled with encouragement, laughter, and those wonderful aha moments when something finally clicks.
I look forward to helping you discover what can change when you change the conversation within.
My credentials and training
- Author of The Quiet Path
- Certified Canfield Success Principles Trainer
- Certified Life Coach, Mindfulness Instructor & Dream-Builder Coach
- Certified Access Bars Practitioner
- Langevin Certified Instructor & Facilitator
- Member of the European Mentoring and Coaching Council
"Stella's true caring and contagious optimism helped me get unstuck and take action on my creative dreams."
Georgia K.
Artist
Choose your Flip Your Script experience
Both options include the complete 4-week Flip Your Script journey. Choose the level of personal support that feels right for you.
The Flip Your Script Experience
Investment: $247
Payment plan available: 3 weekly payments of $90
• Four live group coaching calls
• One private coaching session with Stella
• Flip Your Script online guides and resources
• A private online community
• Personal support throughout the journey
The Flip Your Script VIP Experience
Investment: $547
Payment plan available: 3 weekly payments of $200
The VIP Experience includes everything in Flip Your Script, plus:
• Two additional private coaching sessions with Stella
• Direct email access for support between calls
• Personal guidance focused on your life, goals, and progress
• Limited to 4 participants
Begin your Flip Your Script journey with confidence
My promise to you
I want you to begin the course feeling confident in your decision. Come to our first call, participate fully, and complete the first week’s work. If, within seven days of our first live call, you genuinely feel Flip Your Script isn’t right for you, simply email me. I’ll refund everything you’ve paid.
Ready to hear when the next Flip Your Script journey begins?
Joining the interest list doesn’t obligate you to enroll, and no payment is required.
Still wondering if it's right for you?
Frequently asked questions
Not at all. Flip Your Script makes room for disappointment, grief, anger, limits, and uncertainty. You’ll learn to question thoughts that are harsh, incomplete, or based on assumptions and create responses that acknowledge reality while remaining open to possibility.
Absolutely no previous experience with coaching or personal development is necessary. The course is suitable whether this is your first personal-growth class or you have been doing this work for years.
The workbook exercises and practices are meant to fit into everyday life. You won’t need hours each day. A few meaningful minutes of consistent practice can help you carry the learning beyond the weekly class.
Some thoughts have been repeated for years. The goal isn’t to erase them after one exercise. It is to recognize them sooner, question what they are telling you, and become less willing to follow them automatically.
Flip Your Script is offered at selected times throughout the year so each group can receive Stella’s full attention. The group is limited to ten participants.
If registration hasn’t opened yet, join the interest list. You’ll be among the first to receive the starting date, weekly call time, and enrollment information. Joining the list doesn’t obligate you to enroll, and no payment is required.
The VIP Experience offers deeper, more personalized support along the way.
When you upgrade to the VIP Experience you’ll receive:
✓ Everything included in Flip Your Script
✓ Two private coaching sessions with Stella
✓ Direct email access for support between calls
✓ Personal guidance focused on your life, goals, and progress
You’ll experience the complete Flip Your Script journey while having dedicated private time to explore what’s coming up for you, work through challenges, and receive the support you need to keep moving forward.
The VIP Experience is limited to four participants.
I want you to begin Flip Your Script feeling confident in your decision. Come to our first call, participate fully, and complete the first week’s work.
If, within seven days of our first live call, you genuinely feel Flip Your Script isn’t right for you, simply email me. I’ll refund everything you’ve paid.
You’ll receive confirmation of your enrollment, instructions for accessing the course materials, and details about the weekly calls and private online community. You’ll also receive information for scheduling your private coaching session.
VIP participants will receive information for scheduling their two additional private coaching sessions.
If you want support focused entirely on your individual life and prefer private conversations rather than a group experience, one-on-one coaching may be a better fit.
Learn more about One-on-One Life Coaching with Stella Frances.
You’re welcome to schedule a complimentary 45-minute Clarity Discovery Call with me before enrolling. You can ask questions, talk about what you hope to gain, and decide whether Flip Your Script and its level of support feel right for you.
Schedule your complimentary 45-minute Clarity Discovery Call.
Join me in Flip Your Script
There’s a reason you’ve stayed with me this far. A part of you knows that your life can feel different. Calmer. Truer. More fully your own.
You may have lived with some thoughts for so long that they feel inseparable from who you are.
But a familiar thought isn’t necessarily the truth. You are the person who can pause, question what you have been believing, and choose what happens next.
Flip Your Script won’t ask you to become someone else. It will help you hear the thoughts that have been quietly directing your choices and practice a response that is more truthful, supportive, and aligned with the life you want to live.
One thought can close a door before you reach it.
Another can help you discover that the door was never locked.
Perhaps this is your moment to look beyond the old script and ask:
What else might become possible if I continue?
You don’t need the complete answer today. You only need the willingness to listen differently.
As Tommy would remind me, the world is your oyster. I would love to welcome you to Flip Your Script.
With love and excitement,
Stella Frances
Life Coach • Mindfulness Instructor
P.S. I know you might be thinking: "I'll bookmark this and come back later."
Later is remarkably persuasive. It promises more time, more energy, and a quieter life. Somehow, it rarely checks the calendar first.
Fortunately, today’s step is wonderfully small. You’re simply asking me to let you know when the doors open.
If that feeling is still with you, take the small step now. You can decide the rest when the invitation arrives.
